Today, in Israel, it is Yom Hazikaron, Memorial Day.
At 11:00 AM this morning
the siren rang, for a long moment.
To remember those who
gave up their lives for this country. How important it is to remember, because the
present is built on the past.
Ironically, I was just
reading a chapter on memory in Dan Seigel’s book, The Whole Brain Child,
where he explains that parents can teach their children how to benefit from
remembering. Instead of letting painful memories burden us, we can use the
power of recall to reprocess those experiences.
Dan writes “Sometimes parents hope
that their children will “just forget about” painful experiences… what kids
really need is… healthy ways to integrate implicit and explicit memories,
turning even painful experiences into sources of power and self-understanding (page
77).”
So true - for children and adults, too. What memory do you need to remember and integrate into your life story?